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Two Young Ladies Kidnapped by spiritual
husbands – contact me
I have four friends that are
suffering now. Their daughters are gone. They have been taken by “ABUSERS”.
Both girls now would be in
their 40s, the same as our daughters.
Both girls fell in love with guys that are ‘spiritual’.. you know they
read the Bible and even preach in churches from time to time – kind of a ‘wannabe’
pastor. In fact both attended Bible Colleges.
Both of these buys are first
class jerks… yet they think of themselves as super spiritual and wonderful
guys.
Not long after they were
married the guys both insisted that their new wives leave their parents and
have nothing to do with their families forever.
Grandchildren were born and at this stage in life they will be
graduating from Elementary and maybe even High School. But my friends will never be able to see
their grandchildren at these very important times in their lives.
I can see the wives of these
monsters listening to the stupid husbands… but what do the kids know? How do they react? Will there be a day when they would like to
know their mom’s parents? I think that
will happen.
In one case recently the granddaughter
contacted me and asked if I knew where her grandparents were located. This was another young lady that had her
family ripped in pieces because of her father’s abuse. I can tell you that she
has started connecting with her grandmother now.
Why do men do these kinds of
things to their wives?
Doing a search about abuse
and abusers I found the following…
1.
Charming.
Initially, he showers his woman with praise, adoration, and
attention. His courtship is sweet and intense filled with phrases such as, “I
can’t live without you.” He quickly pushes for an exclusive relationship or
engagement.
2.
Jealous.
He views other men as a threat to the relationship and
accuses you of flirting with everyone from his brother to the mailman. “I know
you are looking at him.” The irony is that he often is the one who is cheating.
3.
Manipulative.
This man is very intelligent. He knows how to detect your
weak spots, and he uses your vulnerability and past pain to his advantage. “You
were abused as a kid because you are so ugly.”
4.
Controlling.
He wants to know where you are going and who you are with
at all times. He may check the mileage on your car or follow you to the grocery
store. He often refuses to allow you to workbecause you
might “meet someone.”
5. A
Victim.
His poor choices are everyone else’s fault. When he loses
his job, gets into a fight, or a business deal falls through, it’s always
because of the other person. He is never at fault. “You make me hit you.”
6.
Narcissistic.
The whole world revolves around him. As the “little woman
who is beneath him,” it is your job to meet his every need. He is the master;
you are the unworthy slave. It’s invigorating for him to know that everyone
around him “walks on eggshells.”
7.
Inconsistent.
Mood swings are a common trait for an abuser. One minute he
seems happy and sweet, the next he is pounding his fist.
8.
Critical.
No matter how hard you try you will never be able to
satisfy this kind of man. He thinks nothing of degrading and verbally
assaulting you. “You are a stupid, fat, disgusting tramp. You can never leave
me. No other man would have you.”
9.
Disconnected.
His main goal is to isolate his victim from family and
friends so that you are totally dependent on him. “Your family causes too much
trouble for us. I don’t want you seeing them anymore.”
10.
Hypersensitive.
The slightest offense sends him ranting. Everyone is out to
“get him.”
11.
Vicious and cruel.
A significant number of abusers harm children and animals
as well as a partner. Inflicting pain and intimidating others is what gives him
power. “I’ll kill you before I’ll let you go. If I can’t have you, no one
will.”
12.
Insincerely repentant.
He will swear to never “hit you again.” But unless he
receives professional help and strong accountability it’s very unlikely that he
will change.
WOW – does that ever sum up
the story of each of these young men! It is as if the guys wrote the list!
One final word… your mom and
dad’s names are… Marilyn and Ron… or… Helen and Bruce… you need to contact them
now. It is not God’s will to separate
families the way that your husband has suggested. He wouldn’t let me say that to you – so I am
hoping that you might just be stumbling on to this and just maybe you might
read it… and maybe just maybe you are ready to escape the abuser.
Do it now… or contact me… if
is posted with this Blog.
~ Murray Lincoln ~
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