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WHAT I BELIEVE ABOUT SUCCESS
By John Maxwell (click
here for source)
When will you be successful? If you’re like most
people, what comes to mind is someday—somewhere off in the future, when you’ll
suddenly wake up and think, “I made it! I’m a success!” That’s how most
unsuccessful people see success: as something to strive for and hope to reach
“someday.”
Each of us has a picture in mind of what we want
our career to look like, our family to look like, and yes, from an early age we
often conjure up images of the houses, cars, and things we would like to
obtain. In many persons’ minds, success is something way off in the distance
that they will run themselves ragged to get to – if they ever get to it at all.
At one time, I viewed success as a place where I
would arrive. I defined it as the progressive realization of a predetermined,
worthwhile goal. But over time, I realized that the definition falls short of
the mark. It leads to “destination disease” – the belief that if we just arrive
somewhere (e.g. attain a position, accomplish a goal, have a relationship with
the right person), we will be successful.
But many years ago, I came to a different
conclusion about success. All the traditional definitions either made success a
destination to reach, or required some magic formula to obtain. I began to see
success as a journey, an ongoing process of growth. And after over nearly fifty
years of knowing successful people and studying the subject, this is the
definition of success that I now embrace:
Success is…
Knowing your purpose in life,
Growing to reach your maximum potential, and
Sowing seeds that benefit others.
You can see by this definition why success is a
journey rather than a destination. No matter how long you live or what you
decide to do in life, you will never exhaust your capacity to grow toward your
potential, nor will you run out of opportunities to help others. When you see
success as a journey, then you never have the problem of trying to “arrive” at
an elusive final destination. And you’ll never find yourself in a position
where you’ve accomplished some final goal - only to discover that you’re still
unfulfilled and searching for something else to do.
Another benefit of focusing on the journey of
success instead of on arriving at a destination or achieving a goal is that you
have the potential to become a success today. The very moment that
you make the shift to finding your purpose, growing to your potential, and
helping others, successful is something you are right now, not something you
vaguely hope one day to be.
Let’s talk more about how to pursue each of the
three aspects noted above.
Knowing Your Purpose
I believe that God created every person for a
purpose. As psychologist Viktor Frankl said, “Everyone has his own specific
vocation or mission in life. Everyone must carry out a concrete assignment that
demands fulfillment. Therein he cannot be replaced, nor can his life be
repeated. Thus everyone’s task is as unique as his specific opportunity to
implement it.” Each of us has a purpose for which we were created. Our
responsibility - and our greatest joy - is to identify it.
Finding our purpose requires us to seek to discover
two things: our passion, and our giftedness. What is the deep desire set in
your heart, the thing that sets your soul on fire? What makes you cry? What do
you get most excited about? And what are you good at? No one else in the world
has exactly the same gifts, talents, background, or future that you do.
Think about the unique mix of abilities you have,
the resources available to you, your own personal history, and the
opportunities around you. If you objectively identify these factors and
discover the desire of your heart, you will have done a lot toward discovering
your purpose in life.
Growing to Your Potential
Novelist H.G. Wells said that wealth, notoriety,
place, and power are no measures of success whatsoever. The only true measure
of success is the ratio between what we might have been and what we have
become. In other words, success comes as the result of growing to our
potential. It’s been said that our potential is God’s gift to us, and what we
do with it is our gift to him.
We have nearly limitless potential, yet few ever
try to reach it. Why? The answer lies in this: We can do anything, but we can’t
do everything. Many people let everyone around them decide what their agenda is
in life. As a result, they never really dedicate themselves to their purpose in
life. They become a jack of all trades, master of none--rather than a jack of
few trades, focused on one.
Reaching your potential requires focus. That’s why
it’s so important for you to discover your purpose. Commitment to continual
improvement is also key. Each day you can become a little bit better than you
were yesterday.
Forget the past and focus on the future. That’s
where your potential lies, ahead of you - no matter whether you’re eight,
eighteen, forty-eight, or eighty. You still have room to improve yourself. You
can become better tomorrow than you are today. As the Spanish proverb says, “He
who does not look ahead remains behind.”
Sowing Seeds That Benefit Others
When you know your purpose in life and are growing
to reach your maximum potential, you’re well on your way to being a success.
But there’s one more important part to the success journey: helping others.
Without that aspect, the journey can be a lonely and shallow experience.
Helping others is something you can do right here,
right now, whether it’s spending more time with your family, developing an
employee who shows potential, helping people in the community, or simply
putting your own desires on hold for the sake of your team at work. The key is to
link your purpose with your desire to help others.
Entertainer Danny Thomas said, “All of us are born
for a reason, but all of us don’t discover why. Success in life has nothing to
do with what you gain in life or accomplish for yourself. It’s what you do for
others.”
The success journey will not look the same for
everyone, because the picture of success is different for every person. What
doesn’t change are the principles used to take the journey. They can be applied
at home, in school, at the office, on the ball field, and in church. It doesn’t
matter where you are now. You can learn and apply these ideas. You can be
successful today.
~ Murray Lincoln ~
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