Monday, November 11, 2013

The small table with the War Artifacts

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The small table with the War Artifacts
Yesterday I attended and lead the church service at St. Andrews Presbyterian Church in Cobourg, Ontario.
Through a very simple but dynamic presentation we remembered together the men and women that gave their lives for Canada in different wars around the world.
One of the congregants read out the names of the men from their congregation that had died in the different wars. The list was long and each name represented a sorrow that many had never recovered from.
I shared the story that I know best about Corp. Mark McLaren, whose parents are our friends and neighbors living just two doors away from us.  In early December 2008 Mark was killed when his convoy was hit by a roadside bomb in Afghanistan. That day the war came to our street.
My message yesterday also shared that this whole thing is more than just a Red Poppy… it is about families that will grieve forever… and that will always have one empty chair at that Christmas table in the years to come… and perhaps no grandchildren from their son as he died so very young… so far away.
As I spoke I was moved again to remember…


On a small Card table I placed some War artifacts that I have collected over these years. You can see them below… three soldier’s helmets, one lunch box, one soldier's pocket knife, three spent rifle shells, one unfired anti-aircraft shell, a small brass field gun and two oranges.
The two oranges were there to remind all of us of the rationing that all that lived in Canada experienced. I was about 9 or 10 before I saw an orange. During the war they were nowhere to be had – after the war no one could afford one even if was available.
The brass cannon was made by my dad in “the Industries” where my dad worked building guns just like this one for the soldiers overseas.  It is now 70 years old.  He couldn’t go overseas because of health issues.  The lunch box was like my Dad's lunch box as he went off to the Industries each day.
The pocket knife was a gift from my Uncle that had come back from the World War II - wanted his nephew to have it.  I was about 2 years old when he came home.
The shells were ones that I have found along life’s way. One is a Japanese shell(brass with the greenish corrosion) fired off when the Japanese invaded Hong Kong. When I lived in Hong Kong I found it on a hiking trail where the Japanese soldiers walked in 1941 to capture Hong Kong… the firing of that bullet likely killed a British soldier… and later almost 200 Canadians soldiers were executed by the Japanese soldiers one day after they arrived to defend the colony.
The helmets come from the World War I and World War II. The one(front row - right side) was brought back by a soldier that had been gassed in a trench in France… and was never again the same for his family back home. He came home by was never any good on the farm… post-traumatic stress – PTS happened in 1913 as well.
Yesterday I remembered… and cried for these men… and then I prayed for peace.
~ Murray Lincoln ~
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Saturday, November 9, 2013

Jackson Proscow and his fellow reporters are Heroes – Thank you!

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Jackson Proscow and his fellow reporters are Heroes – Thank you!
Today as I trolled for stories that I have been following I came across an interesting piece by Jackson Proscow, the Municipal Affairs reporter with Global News. 

Jackson Proscow
I have seen Jackson on TV often as he brings on the spot reporting whenever something is going down or coming up.
In the most recent furor with the “Ford Circus” I caught it that Jackson was the one that asked the now infamous but all important question, “Have you ever smoked Crack?” – to the Mayor of Toronto. Apparently all the other reporters had never asked that correct question before – but now Jackson had and the Mayor stepped into the next phase where he started to admit more and more.
Today I listened to Jackson give me another slant that is so important to all of the stories… the reporter’s life through all the “BS” that is slung around them.
Jackson described what is like to be stationed outside a happening story that may suddenly have a whole new slant. The reporter waits and waits and waits and waits. That is one more wait than the Mayor had “ever-s” when he said the bad actions on his part will never ever happen again.
We have all seen the mash of reporters outside the Mayor of Toronto’s Office – waiting the BIG MAN to appear.
Jackson shared what it is like to never know if the Mayor is in a Bad of Good mood… and how it affects him answering or not.

Before I go further read Jackson’s article at “A reporter’s life on ‘elevator watch’ outside Mayor Rob Ford’s office”

Few of the public will even consider what the reporter goes through to tell a story to us.
In their own lives they have to be pretty sturdy with their emotions. They have to be very careful that they do not tell this BIG ASS MAYOR to simply drop dead. And that is why I am not a reporter as I have thought those thoughts of the liar on my screen of the TV.
Few of us would be able to have stood and keep standing when you are called a “maggot” by the Big Man and treated with as much disdain as one could possibly muster… the Ford Nation hates the Maggots even more than Ford does – in that the Maggots exposed their hero.
Yet Jackson Proscow keeps coming back to the story wherever it might happen.
I am admiring his stick-to-it-ness. My hat goes off to Jackson and his fellow reporters whatever their company may be.
There is much talk now of the Mayor of Toronto needing time off to get his act together.
I sure hope that the Managers at the News Rooms and Papers see the need for the reporters to get some time off as well.  They certainly must need it.
Finally – thank you to Jackson Proscow and the other reporters for the fine work you have done. Not only in this story but in others as well. You Gals and Guys rock… and are my heroes.
Hang on folks – don’t quit and keep telling us what you see. We need that. Thank you.
~ Murray Lincoln ~
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Friday, November 8, 2013

Buy Local – Buy Handmade – or Buy Cheaper Junk

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Buy Local – Buy Handmade – or Buy Cheaper Junk
Now take a deep breath and then let it out…. Phew… again…. Phew… now that is better.  This week can continue.  Things have slowed down and the world has evened out.  Halloween is over, Remembrance Day is upon us and now the Christmas rush can gallop up behind with all its hoopla.  I am ready.
The sign said “Buy Local” and another said “Buy Handmade” – suggesting that the folks that are wanting to give a gift this Christmas time should consider buying from the local producers (food produce) and local Crafts People and Artisans.
I like the idea but then none of my friends are interested – or never call. It is always the people that are out there – new people that I have never met before.
It could be that I am not producing the Chinese style junk that is cheap. It could be that I use not enough lead paint to colour of carvings. It could be that my price is not 50 Cents (or less) per hour.
This past week a man strolled up to my table of carvings in the Mall. He was amazed with what I had produced with the carvings I had displayed. He was really impressed. I was happy.
Then he asked, “How much are these carved feathers?”  I explained that the large feathers are $150 each and the smaller ones are only $85.
His reaction was almost comical as he jumped backwards and dropped the feather he was holding…. Saying… “So much… why so much?”
I wasn’t fizzed by his sudden disdain for my art work – which is exactly what it is when you are raving with your compliments one moment and dropping the item like a dangerous hot snake the next.
I asked him how much he made per hour at his place of business.  I knew that he was fully employed and working at a job that paid about $75,000 per year.
I grinned at his third reaction… trying to regain his composure after acting like an admirer that had just became an ass. “I see what you mean… you can’t work for nothing.”
I explained that even at $150 for the larger feathers I am making between $5 and $10 per hour.
He agreed but didn’t buy.
He will buy his gifts at Wall Mart and get his “deal” – but he won’t get a feather.
Now I am in the Christian Community… and from a Christian community where I was known as a Minister… but even that doesn’t help.  They are not interested and have little to do with me. It is the very Non-Christian type that encourage… or maybe that is non-church people…?
Sorry – if you are friend and come from that community. My statement is a large and wide brush that may get paint on you and me when it slops by us. I do appreciate your purchase and know that money is tight.
I am writing about the difficulty of working with the admiration and disdain coming from the same people.  They can drive me nutso.
Oddly enough it is the stuff that sturdy Christians make a big negative deal about(they don’t like the product) that sells the best… so I carve it and they buy. Thank God for that kind of people.
Not complaining but simply showing what happens locally.
Oh by the way… Misty Hollow Wands (a whole lot like Harry Potter Wands) are now available.  Let me know if you need or want one. But then there are also Feathers and Leaves and Love Spoons and great stuff made specially for you.

~ Murray Lincoln ~
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Wednesday, November 6, 2013

Now Canadians and Torontonians can breathe easy – it is all over

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Now Canadians and Torontonians can breathe easy – it is all over
Well it is all over.  All the political problems will now settle down and everything will be the way it should be.
The Prime Minister of Canada has gotten rid of three of his close friends that embarrassed him.
The Mayor of the City of Toronto – Rob Ford – says he will not quit the job, and that he is sorry, and that he will never ever, ever, ever (not sure of how many ever-s actually) do it again… I think that is get drunk in public or do drugs… but I must be specific it is do “Crack”.
Both men won their battles apparently and the world can continue turning.
But if anyone else in Ottawa doesn’t tow the line… their time is limited.  Fear now drives them and guides their daily actions in helping to lead our country.  What a wonderful cloud that must be to live under!
And in Toronto battle lines were drawn even in the middle of confession/apology… and the Mayor laid out his election platform. And don’t forget he through the word “God” in there at the end of what he was saying.
Conservatives across Canada feel relieved and less embarrassed with the riff raff gone.
The Ford Nation can raise its head and say, yes he is a good man for doing what he did in light of all his terrible oppressors riding him down into the mud – i.e. the horrible left wing press.  (Note: from what I read “left and right” has nothing to do with votes but rather “WRONG and our Right”)
The questions that roll around in my mind today are huge. How can people still keep supporting this kind of stuff?
One article I read today stated the author was going to join the group of “Beleaguered Voters” – the disillusioned people that once believed but no longer can. 
These people are outside of the solid supporters, who are possibly true Blue Conservatives that believe all are bad that are not under their banner… and the other group located in Toronto that still hold to Rob Ford as a hero against big bad and entitlement kind of politicians – people that will do any amount of lies to keep their jobs… you know… anyone that is not of the “F Nation”.
I am disheartened with what I have witnessed.  Just like a lot of other people that shake their heads and say I don’t want to vote again!… or why should I ever vote again!?
Take heart if you are in that category… the people that are addicted to power and other stuff will not be able to stop doing it again. They will do it again if they do not get help.
How do I know that?
Well after working with people for 40 years now and watching what happens… when they don’t get help they will do it again… and in doing so more people will be hurt. Addicts cannot heal themselves.
Now the last question that comes to most people minds that are kind of political… “Is Lincoln a Liberal or a Leftist NDPer… because he doesn’t seem to like Conservatives or the “F Nation”.
Nope I don’t lean to anyone of them. I have witnessed all of them do just as much damage when they have all the power possible.
Lincoln just can’t stand the lies, the deceit, the struggle to keep the huge salaries while others watch in horror to it all happening.  And this Lincoln just watches it all come down around their heads.
~ Murray Lincoln ~
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Monday, November 4, 2013

Who is this “Ford Nation” anyway?

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Who is this “Ford Nation” anyway?
Living in Peterborough, Ontario we are just a wee bit out of Toronto. This gigantic city is only about an hour and a half’s drive from my driveway.  I can be there in a heartbeat.
Living in our city we are also connected to many people that used to live in Toronto, but had escaped to a slower lifestyle and perhaps a safer one(at least we think so).
And living in this small city we are also flooded with news from our relatives and friends living in “the City” when stuff happens. Anything happening there will be news here.
Away out in Yorkton or Moose Jaw, Saskatchewan it isn’t news – not so much anyway – unless there are no problems that day with the crops or cows.  Local problems will always over shadow news from Toronto.
But even in small places in Saskatchewan my friends will write notes on Facebook or via email asking what is going on in Toronto with that guy Ford.
That guy ‘Ford’ is known by all former Torontonians… and for sure by people  that live there now. Ford is the infamous guy known as THE MAYOR of Toronto.  And Ford is also the guy that in his own eyes and mind is the best Mayor that Toronto has ever had!
The Best Mayor ever?  Yep – he told his radio audience this on his show on Sunday afternoon. He is the best by far.  But remember he is the one telling you… Take a look at a summary of his radio show of yesterday at this link – where he tells everyone he is the Best.
Pause: Just a quick catch up here to let you know what has taken place at this point in time.
The Best Mayor Toronto has ever had has constantly been in the news reports for months now. He is a heavy drinker and gets loud along with stupid when he drinks. This BMOT (Best Mayor of Toronto) also accused of being a druggie with a video done of him “doing stuff” and saying stupid stuff. The druggie stuff that he was doing in the video appears to be “crack”… but BMOT cannot tell you what was in the pipe he was apparently smoking because he hasn’t seen the video yet. (What a super stupid statement!)
The BMOT is married with a wife that must have the patience of Mrs. Job. The BMOT also has two kids that he parades around with him at different and meaningful times.  That proves that BMOT is smart and that his addictions can be covered by being a loving daddy.
Oh boy… my suspicious meter is way over the top at this moment as is 85% of the population of Toronto and 100% of the rest of Canada.
15% - you say?
Yep that is what the statics say… 15% of the population still support the BMOT… through whatever he does – no matter how ugly or awful he is.
You are kidding – right!?  Support this drunken, foul mouthed, complete idiot, type of fool that thinks he is the BMOT… you are kidding – RIGHT!?????
Nope – I am not.  They have been labelled as the “Ford Nation” and they get out to vote their hero in to become the BMOT. Yep 15% did it because less than 25% of the population of millions actually voted – and 15% is more than 50% of 25%.
Yep the BMOT.
But my original question is “Who is this Ford Nation anyway?”
In my humble opinion they are the men and their supporters(families that blame the wives) that are some of the worst of our society. They have broken their marriages with booze and drug addictions. They have abused their spouse physically and mentally. They have been ordered out of their houses and homes – away from their kids to keep what is left safe and sound. They are the ones that don’t show and don’t pay their child support. They are the 15% of society that I have watched and connected to as a minister… and have shaken my head when they will not take advice from anyone.
This 15% kind of people are licking their wounds and looking somewhere for a saviour. They need someone to fight their battles and stand up and show the world that they are not what you say they are.  And they unite under a banner that the news calls “Ford Nation”.  The BMOT is their living, breathing, drinking, drug using, shouting, swearing, threatening anyone and everyone – kind of hero. He is what they are only he is the BMOT… and they love the down to their earth kind of idiot.
I wonder what the BMOT does when he comes home drunk?  I wonder what kind of ruckus happens when he thunders through the house, barfs all over the bathroom floor and swears at his trembling wife?  I wonder if she is still living with the BMOT?  Do you think the kids wake up crying when daddy comes home?
How would I ever say that kind of stuff or suggest that visual for you to consider of the BMOT!!!!?
Well as a minister in a lot of different communities I have seen the women that these asses live with.  I have heard their stories and looked at their bruised faces that still have tears running down their cheeks.  I have watched the families of the guys that think the BMOT is their hero… and what I have seen has been ugly.
I have watched the poor wives of these idiots be turned upon by the mother of the BMOT.  (Oh BTW – BMOT can also mean Being Mean Or Threatening).  I have seen the entire family never visit or have anything to do with the spouse of a BMOT.  I have witnessed what happens when the BMOT does to his own family supporters… like live with his aged mother… buy all kinds of good stuff like cars, motorcycles, boats and big boy toys with the money he doesn’t give to his Ex or his kids.
This “Ford Nation” and the Toronto’s BMOT #1 has my blood boiling and my thoughts turned toward Rob Ford’s wife and kids.
No newspaper reporter has checked the women’s shelters in that area have they?
No one has said anything about how his wife must feel when she goes shopping… when people whisper and point at her.
No one has ever asked from Protective Child Services what is happening to the kids in this home.  After all when you are the BMOT that department is under you… and God help them if they come to your door… thus says the BMOT!
This story is far from over… and it is classic in every way possible to show the extent of abuse that can be carried on without intervention of any kind.
God help Mrs. Ford and her family – let alone the city of Toronto!
~ Murray Lincoln ~
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Sunday, November 3, 2013

The Day “the Program” died and all the leaders died with it

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The Day “the Program” died and all the leaders died with it
Yesterday I met with a group of people that experienced a great loss.  In about 1999 the entire organization they had been actively involved in fell completely to pieces.  What they had invested time, talent and in fact their whole life in – simply dissolved.  It all fell apart.  But not just falling apart on its own – someone was intent on pulling it all down… and they had succeeded.
I joined into this group for the simple reason that I had also been part of the whole group and in fact the top leader of the group. I had also invested my total energies and effort into building the best group that had ever existed.  And without blowing my horn too loudly, all that effort had paid off. The group was growing, the group was strong and the group had a life all of its own. In community after community across Canada, the West Indies and even in Asia the group was large doing a super job… all that it was intended to do.
I was pulled from the group leadership when I moved from Canada to Hong Kong in 1980.  However I didn’t stop working at the group’s work and in fact was given the role of leading this group in Asia helping to it continue to grow even greater.
Yesterday’s group of leaders of this former group spoke of the great loss they had felt when the group work they were doing was told that the whole group would no longer exist as it had but would get a new name, the styles and program would be washed away and they no longer could conduct business the way they had in the past.  NEW was on its way and NEW was good for everyone – please accept it NOW!
It didn’t matter if their business had been successful or not. It was done.  A new idea was coming and the old one had to go.
New people have new ways of looking at things and the old people MUST cooperate for everyone’s good.  And in the eyes of the poor people that had poured so much into what they did – this was a catastrophic decision that was made. They had not been consulted and I truly believe many had no idea what had been decided.  When the news arrived of the change they were confused and hurt that what they were doing was considered useless and unwanted anymore!
From the leadership’s point of view, and the role of the people that I had once been in, they saw the changes vital to connecting with the future world around them. The old terminology was outdated and no longer relevant. In some areas the old terminology was even offensive. These particular areas were a million miles from where these leaders I met yesterday, lived and worked so faithfully.  The older leaders really had little to do with that other, possibly offended world. They couldn’t understand at all the newer thinking and the change that was adopted.
I was caught in the middle with the “old people” that had been involved with what they loved pouring out their hearts to me as their former leader… and wanting answers to vital and important questions.  I personally had poured so much into the old way of doing things that I too was also confused with the loss of all the good I had done.
In the middle I was caught because the new group came to me to ask for support in launching the New Idea.  They also asked me to be one of the artists that would draw the illustrations for the new group… thus connecting the “old guy” with the new program – and perhaps legitimizing what was being doing in the eyes of the folk that were so hurt.
The request came for me to illustrate the drawings that were needed.  They also offered me money to do this job – and a “poor minister” in a smaller church I needed all the help that I could get financially.  I am sure that some thought of me as a “Judas” taking the pieces of silver as a traitor. Yikes – that hurt.
Yesterday a large group came together. A long with these faithful old folks came the former leaders that had led these people each step of the way.
They welcomed me as I had taken the position of being the “Dominion Commissioner” this group – the very highest position there was. I served in this position for 4 years from 1976 to 1980.
Following me was a good friend of mine at that time named Doug Lindsay.  He became the next “Dominion Commissioner” and stayed working at that position for 9 full years.  Doug and I at that time didn’t know that our kids would fall in love and marry – but that is just what Bruce, Doug’s son did with my daughter Dana!
Following Doug’s tenure, another of my old friends, Dave McConnell, stepped up to take the position of “Dominion Commissioner” – but not too long after that position would no longer be needed so accepting something that would not exist was a little strange.  But the leaders that recognized Dave in this position would not know of the planned changes that were coming from above Dave… and from above us all.
That may or may not be a good way to explain what happened – but it is what I saw.
Yesterday another friend of all three of these former “Dominion Commissioners” hosted this special day – a reunion of sorts.  His name is Ken Powell and he had served as the intermediate as “District Commissioner” under the top people… that meaning he served in Ontario.
All three of us were invited to speak to the former leadership that was assembled at the camp near Paris, Ontario.
I shared my part of the “whole story”. Then Doug shared his 9 year story.  Following that Dave shared what his part had been. Each person shared what they did from their personal perspective.  And it all fit together in an amazing way.  It told the leaders the whole story. Like it or not – there it was to think about.
The program did die an almost immediate death.  The program was about these leaders conducting weekly meetings with the children that they brought to the church each week. In many cases there were well over 50 to 100 kids each week meeting with these committed leaders.
The old names and terminology were flushed first and a new name given.
This mysterious name that I have not yet revealed was named “Pentecostal Crusaders International”.  The word “Crusaders” was one of the issues that any church within a short distance of a new citizen to Canada – that may just have come from the Middle East and might have Islamic roots… could and would be offended – they were quite sure of that.
So the whole idea was changed to the “BG Clubs” – which meant “Boys and Girls Clubs” with no uniform and none of the quasi-military stuff the old Crusaders used to have.  Uniforms were gone. Saluting your leaders was gone.  Line ups were gone. Inspection of your dress up apparel was gone.  Whatever looked like Crusaders, the old was no longer there.
The elements were still there that made a good club and interaction with kids great… but the leaders started losing interest almost immediately.
Then more politics came into the situation they faced. Local and Regional management felt strongly that their local and regional management should and could make better decisions locally These decisions would be way better than ones made in a Head Office in Toronto or Mississauga, Ontario!
Oh yes… I know all of the story well. I was caught in the middle.
But yesterday… I heard how it all fit together. It was very good for me to hear and see what all of us faced.
Today in our churches across Canada there is nothing that exists like the program that once was.  There are millions of reasons for this… and in the eyes, ears and minds of each one that will tell you a reason – it is their reason.
Yesterday was good for me.  It was good for all of us.
~ Murray Lincoln ~
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Friday, November 1, 2013

Wisdom and help from John Maxwell’s Blog post - 2

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Wisdom and help from John Maxwell’s Blog post - 2
The following post is from a great source – John Maxwell’s company – from today. Click here for the source article.
THE MALADY OF MISINFORMATION
 “Turn left,” chirped the automated voice of the GPS, but the driver took a right turn instead. In fact, Donna Cooper had stopped listening to the device hours ago. Following the directions of the GPS was precisely what had caused Donna, her daughter, Gina, and their friend, Jenny, to become lost in the first place. Now, the travelers found themselves on an unmarked dirt road somewhere in the middle of Death Valley without any sign of human habitation in sight. Their cell phones had long been without signal in the 3,000 square-mile Mojave Desert.
The July heat was oppressive, even within the climate-controlled car. After all, Death Valley boasts the hottest recorded temperature in human history—134 °F (56.7 °C). What’s more, the ladies had run out of drinking water, and their vehicle soon stalled, its gas tank empty. They desperately needed to find a way back to the civilized world—and fast.
Night fell, and the ladies were forced to sleep in the car. The next day they hiked off-road two miles toward a green patch of vegetation where they found only abandoned trailers and some dirty well water. As another day drew to a close, the ladies faced the grim prospect of not making it out of Death Valley alive.
By their third day in the desert, the ladies’ families had alerted authorities of their disappearance. A chopper was dispatched to look for the trio. Thankfully, after a six-hour search, the pilots spotted the ladies and were able to rescue them. Their ordeal has become a cautionary tale for motorists, who often put blindly trust a GPS to guide them to their desired destination.
FOUR FALSEHOODS ABOUT SUCCESS
Relying on bad information can be costly and take you far off course. Sadly, many leaders have been given a faulty idea about the nature of success. Accordingly, they’re not on track to maximize their influence. Let’s take a moment to look at some common falsehoods along with refutations of them.
Falsehood #1: Success comes from being in the right place at the right time.
Success comes from being the right person in the right place. Lots of people find themselves in advantageous circumstances at a propitious moment, and yet still do not succeed. On the other hand, excellent workers eventually get noticed and entrusted with greater influence.
Falsehood #2: Success is not within the reach of the average person.
Most people shortchange themselves when it comes to success. They do not think that they possess enough talent or brilliance to be great. I firmly believe success is within reach of everyone. Success involves 1) knowing you purpose in life, 2) growing to your maximum potential, and 3) sowing seeds that benefit others. None of those activities requires having an IQ in the 99th percentile or being blessed with inborn leadership traits.
Falsehood #3: Success looks pretty much the same for everybody.
Since people have different purposes and dissimilar potentials, success takes shape uniquely for each person. Comparison is the thief of joy. Stop measuring yourself against others and pay closer attention to the God-given beauty and brilliance inside of you.
Falsehood #4: Success will be greeted by the approval of those around you.
Unfortunately, Bette Midler spoke truthfully when she commented that “the worst part of success is trying to find someone who is happy for you.” Your success incriminates those who are wasting their time and talents, and they may be resentful of you as a result. The true test of relationships is not only how loyal someone is when we fail, but how thrilled they are when we succeed.
Thought to Ponder
Is success really for everyone? Or, are some people destined to stand out and others to blend into the crowd? I’d like to hear your opinion. Please take a moment to post a comment in response.

~ Murray Lincoln ~
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